After sending fewer interests, I got a text on my mobile rearly in the morning on 21/05/2014 at 06:03:03 AM that "Kiran Baig: Hi i got your message on Shaadi.com". After chatting of one hour we made our mind. And I met with Kiran and her mother on 23/05/2014. and and and. I got married on 27/06/2014. This is life.Just true to yourself and others.(before that I was thinking that Shaadi.com is a dating site). The main objective of Shaadi.com is to find a good life partner and most people are paid members. I was also paid member. My advice to you is get married: if you find a good wife you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher.